Sent by a friend, who’s considering having it done:
10.Raise my Iron level by 4 points in just 45 minutes.
9. I need to stop worrying about waking up dead by bleeding out during the night.
8. Stop scheduling “relations” with spouse, within the safe 4 day window.
7. Put an end to the fear of embarrassment in public places.
6. Be able to order my steaks medium, instead of ‘cut it with a hot knife’.
5. Return the grass to green, over the septic system run off.
4. Be able to leave the house for longer for 20 minutes.
3. Single handedly put Kotex out of business.
2. Put a stop to the endless debate, which is larger, a small egg or a large walnut.
1. Donate my uterus to Red Cross and they will never need another blood drive.
Hehe.
also posted at LingualNerve
All good reasons…ones I am sure I listed 8 yrs ago. You will see the twinge in the stock market re: Kotex/Playtex in the beginning, but this will soon be replaced by the large upswing in stock prices for folks like GE/Best Buy or whomever makes/distributes the fans you will be surrounding the bed with when the hot flashes start. ;-) Personal lubricants will eventually become a major topic in your life, replacing the dull conversations regarding menses and hygene products.
Truly a give and take, but you won’t be unhappy that you did it!! Good luck!
signed,
The Queen Of Spay
I can verify everything that “the Queen of Spay” just said…If any woman ever thought PMS was bad wait until surgical menopause strikes and your husband no longer suspects, but knows for a fact that he married sybil…And, K-Y jelly is soooo romantic!! You know; dim the lights, lite the candles, soft background music and lots and lots of K-Y..
Couldn’t the Queen of Spay just take birth control pills continuously and suppress the periods completely? It’s done wonders for my health and sanity. Seems a less drastic thing than surgery too. What about endometrial ablation?
Ahhhh, I’m not the QUEEN for no good reason. After 7 years of near bleeding to death…BC pills in lots of shapes/sizes/amounts, then moving to the depo-provera shots, and continuing to suffer it was finally ..unanimously agreed that the only thing to do was ‘the big H’. Even then, the endometriosis (stage IV) required that I continue to bleed profusely for another year while taking depo-lupron.
I am not not sorry for having had the Big H. I am losing bone mass from the lupron…but all in all, hot flashes/insomnia/joint aches and pains/dryness etc..all X 10 wouldn’t make me go back. Some of us NEED the Big H. I think if you embrace it, and look forward to the end of certain things, you can better deal with the not so great aspects of surgical menopause. I do want it to end though..before I die. Some carry it to their graves, and I hope I’m not one. I also suggest to all that those looking to chemically supress their menses for long periods of time, read the journal articles etc. There are known drawbacks, and if you are doing it for the sake of convenience, well……
radtec, I read stories like yours and I wonder what in the world is wrong with me and my big H experience? Of course, I did have invasive cancer and had a 4 hr. “radical H”…But, still after almost 10 years you would think I would be use to the changes..I grieve for my periods…..If I would have had a choice I would never have had that surgery..
What about surgical oblation of the uterine lining? A colleague had that procedure last year and has been deleriously happy with results.
Every woman I know who has had a hysterectomy has had (pick at least 3)
loss of libido
pain with intercourse
unremitting abdominal discomfort
severe menopausal symptoms
urinary incontinence
stress urinary incontinence
fecal incontinence
mood swings
loss of sensation in vulva
So the short answer is I’d sure look hard at the alternatives.
http://www.scienceblog.com/community/older/archives/A/hhs1770.html
[there’s more at the site]
So cut to cure may not be the best choice here.
I had a reply..it wouldn’t ‘take it’. hmmmm, anyhow;
Cut to cure? I’ve never advocated that for anyone/any reason/any time. Ablation doesn’t work well enough, for enough women, and you have to repeat it. Sorry..taking time off every ___months, going to the hospital out patient, getting anesthesia etc..isn’t MY cup of tea. For others, I say whatever works best for you.
To annon…who misses her menstruation..well, I have no idea what to say except I’m sorry. :( My quality of life for 8 long years was misery. Any side effects you can list for post hyst patients, I already had issues with, including the hot flashes thanks to the lupron. I had no where literally to go but UP, and was done with child bearing. I welcomed the surgery although it was the most painful one I had ever had..and that includes the two C-sections. I’ll never regret it. Menopause is not an evil curse..and millions of women get through it every year/did get through it for decades without hormone replacement etc. It is a GREAT thing to have those drug thereapies..but they are of greater proven risk than just toughing it out. Your mileage may vary. To each their own! :)
Enjoy!
The Queen Of Spay!
radtec, Oh, I didn’t mean that I thought you shouldn’t have had an H. I feel like you with that statement “to each his own”…I think a radical H is an experience not similar to any other type of H..When you lose all the lymph nodes and you deal with an atonic bladder and bowel for months and even years as a complication of the surgery, well it just is not a pleasant surgery to recover from…The pain was unbelievable..Made my knee surgery, gallbladder, and fundoplication surgeries seem like childs play…Maybe greiving for my periods was a misstatement, but certainly, I do miss the parts that are now gone. I use to be a nice person but now I’m a bitch!
thanks for the list of side effects from the H.lots of women I know have said it’s wonderful for them,but no mention of all the hassle.and,NO,Iwon’t miss my periods (nothing but nuisance 25 years since my tubal ligation…or scheduling appointments with my husband “tonight or wait a week”…so a really smart Dr. talked me out of the H and into ablation…thanks